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<table border="0" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1" width="100%" class="forumline"> <tr> <th class="thCornerL" width="22%">Autor</th> <th class="thCornerR">Wiadomość</th> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>ED0crE2E3</b></span></td> <td class="row1" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/Elveron/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Wysłany: Śro 7:13, 27 Kwi 2011<span class="gen"> </span> Temat postu: How To Break Free From The Addiction To Possessive</span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">ecially in relationships, where people feel vulnerable, where sentiments are high and a great deal is at peg, the wish to control arises. At 1st this may arise as possessiveness, wanting to know all about what the partner is doing, dictating what he/she can or cannot do. Possessive often intensifies. Power struggles erupt. There is the sense that the person belongs to you and you have the right to straight their alternatives and the way their life goes. <br />Both the person dominating and the one being dominated lose liberty and well-being. Although the dominant one may say they are doing it out of love, for the nice of the associate, the bottom line is that there is fear and inflame here, manifesting as the desire to control. Love forever credits and respects another, it gives a person space to be who they are, to make their own changes and discoveries. It does not quest to take over another's life, yet to promote it. <br />However, some very much enjoy being controlled. They feel that if their partners are possessiveness and controlling, it means that they care. This is a hazardous muddle. When one individual controls another, it is always to make themselves feel secure and secure. <br />The Dynamics Of Control <br />The extra out of control one actually namely, the extra the desire apt control arises. Being skillful to control different person or position tin cater a consciousness of power, strength, legislature, or the sense namely one's world ambition reside settled and safe. However, the extra we control, the more of our own vigor we have to use to reserve this vigil up. <br />Control and domination can become one addiction. There is a rush that goes with control, the person feels mighty, as whereas they are strong and on top of the world and often the one being controlled may also feel a rush of safety and security, as although they matter a great deal to somebody. Sooner or afterward always of this has to collapse. <br />Fear Of Domination <br />Another muscular source of the desire to control others is fear of domination. We do not want to be controlled. Although many long for approval and approval, they too fear being dictated to. The way this clash is handled is by dominating others. They feel that if they are act the controlling, not one can lasso them in. In fact, they are lassoing themselves, tying themselves to the one they so absence to control. Many will do about everything to feel secure. Much misgiving can be traced to not having a true sense of stability among ourselves. This happens while we do not live from our core. The need to control arises from this. It is vitally essential to contact our true the true source of security among that which provides stability, no matter what is going aboard. <br />Exercise: <br />Who Are You Controlling? <br />Make a catalogue of everyone you are controlling - or ambition to control. Include yourself in this list. Write down the ways in which you control and prevail yourself. <br />Stop Controlling Them <br />Take one person on the list and fair let them No matter how much you've tried to control them, have you succeeded? Write down what the result has been. How has it made you feel? Whatprice have you paid for this? <br />Imagine that you simply permit them to be exactly as they are. How does this make you feel immediately? What happens to your relationship? What happens to your own energy and sense of well-being? <br />Granting Freedom To Yourself As Well <br />Now do this exercise with yourself.Allow yourself to be exactly as you are. Stop fighting, moving, and punishing yourself for ways in which you function. Take the noose off your own neck. How do you feel? What fashionable ways of being may be open to you now? What has your infinite desire to control yourself stopped from occurring? <br />Realizing Who Is In Control <br />Different human will come to different conclusions almost this part of the training. That's fine. The intention of the training is to grapple with this question. Spend time with it. Dwell upon the</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/Elveron/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> </table>
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